In much the same words that Dean told me, I am going to kind of tell you what to expect if this is your first visit. First, let me tell you that I was SO nervous and scared that I had to ask my Aunt to ride with me to give me support. I even called Mere who told me to put on my big girl panties and get over there - that really did help. :) Also, it is okay to feel scared, nervous, emotional, etc. You are about to go see your friend whom some have not seen in years. Heartland Health is a nice, sunny facility with friendly staff. It doesn't smell bad or feel bad. When you get to his room, take a deep breath. Chances are he will be asleep, but even if he isn't, just go talk to him. From what I saw, he hugged, shook hands or at least acknowledged everyone who came in. He weighs 156 lbs and his arms are a bit atrophied, thin and he can use them somewhat. He has a mostly grey beard, still has his dark hair and skin. His feet/legs are swollen and he can not move them well if at all. He will talk, but you can not hear him that well at times. Now the trick hear is that he said today he is tired of people being in his face all the time. So don't get too close unless he ask you too with body language. He likes to kiss the ladies - so offer up a cheek.
So if you are on the fence about going, I would say go. Once you do, you will feel better. I sure did.
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